When I was pregnant with Matthew (my first baby) it took me quite some time to decide whether I want to go public or private. The costs of going private is not cheap in Ireland and I am sure it is the same in every other country. In saying that Ireland’s health system is a bit of a disaster compared to the one I am used to in Germany. But I will moan about that another time.
In the end I decided to go public with my first. Oh how I wish I would have chosen private back then. Matthew is a summer baby which made the pregnancy very hard. Elephant feet, puffy face, you name it. Waiting for hours to be seen in the hospital was no fun and games at all. I also found a bit strange that when going public, the first scan you receive, is not until 20 week ish.
With my second pregnancy then, where Chloe came into the world, hubby and I discussed this and came to the conclusion that we are going private this time. I have to admit, it was more hubby that wanted this, because it was the cost that put me off a bit but we came to an agreement in the end.
Now that I have seen both ways, public and private, it is nice to have a comparison and say which one is the best and is it worth it spending that money going private. We have a private health insurance so got a good bit back when we did go private on my second baby. There are mainly 5 reasons looking back now why I think private is better.
1. No more waiting for hours
I remember really well when I had an appointment in the hospital that I could sometimes wait up to 2-3 hours to be seen by somebody. I know you are entitled to your ante natal visit when working but sometimes, depending what time of the day my appointment was, I ended up not going to work any more.
Visiting your consultant in their private clinic was so much handier. You sit with a handful of other women in a room and usually get seen within an hour if not even within 30 mins. Now I did have an occasion where the consultant had to go to the hospital to deliver a baby, but that only happened once.
2. Private Room
Obviously this is something that is not 100% guaranteed depending on how busy the hospital is. With Matthew I was in a semi-private room which had 6 people in it including myself. The downside of this is that mums can be up at all different hours.
With the private room I had, I could close the door any time I want and get up at night whenever I wanted to, without upsetting any one when turning on the light. We had so much more privacy.
3. You always get seen by the same person
With public hospitals you haven’t really got a proper relationship with anyone. You are being seen by different midwives every time and by different consultants, too. It’s always a different person.
Being in the private clinic, it is only the consultant that works there and they always rotate between 2 nurses which means you know them well after a while.
4. Multiple Scans
On my first the first scan I got was at 22 weeks which I personally found a bit late. I think for every pregnancy when going public there should be at least one at 12 weeks as well.
On my second I got so many scans I actually lost track how many I got in the end. But my first ever scan was at 8 weeks. I had another one then 4-5 weeks later on and my last one was around the 30th mark.
5. Less visits
This could be down to the fact that it was my second baby but I found with the first one I kept rotating visits between GP and hospital every few weeks. It was never ending. My ante natal card was packed.
With the private clinic they didn’t feel the need that I don’t have to be seen by the GP that many times. I think it might have been only like 3 times I went there. The majority of times I was seen by consultant.
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I think this post is really helpful in giving parents an informed choice. I used the NHS and was very happy with my care. It didn’t even dawn on me to use a private option but I can see why it would have it’s benefits
I have also experienced both public and private, private in the states with my first and public in the UK. I have to say I had a good experience with both but the after care I received privately was hands down the best
Thank you for sharing this post!! It gave me more insight on what happens in the hospital when you give birth. I’m only 16, so this is really helpful when I get older. However, I would agree to choose private as well for the comfort. 🙂
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Yeah that’s exactly it. You repeat yourself all over again. And it is just the fact we have a private health insurance, why having it and making use out of it.
If I could afford to go private, I would. Private is so much better. It’s worth it just not to be waiting hours! It drives me nuts being seen by different Drs each time and having to explain the same thing over and over again. It’s tiring.
Great post. xx
I think if I could afford to I would choose private. At the moment I am waiting to be referred to a physio and have been waiting half a year already despite how severe my pain and the damage to my back/shoulders/neck is.
I went on the NHS with both my pregnancies (Im in England) and I really couldn’t fault my care. We get two scans at 12 weeks and 20 but with My second, I ended up having seven scans sue to some issues. They only thing I probably would love if I went private would be a private room… those nights on the ward can be tough!! xxx
I was public with my first baby in the Coombe and then semi-private in Holles St. for my second girl who is 14 now. I have to say that the medical care was exactly the same, but you’re right – in terms of comfort, semi private was a better option and private does sound great!