Teaching your children another language other than the mother tongue can be beneficial to them later in life. These days English is the most spoken language in the world. In saying that there is no stopping you to teach your children a second language. I grew up in Germany which means my mother tongue is German.
When you read that you would probably assume that my kids are fluent in German. Unfortunately that is not the case. Some may find that a disaster and think “how can you not teach your children your own language?”. There is a simple reason behind this.
Overtime when you live in a household, where all you speak is English, will get to you eventually. I have no relationship to anyone else who speaks German apart from a friend who lives around the corner but I don’t see her that much. So even if it is my mother tongue, I find myself quite a few times thinking or even looking up what that word was in German. I hope I am not alone on this and there are other bilingual mums out there who have the same problem sometimes.
Nevertheless I do like my children to speak my language eventually. I know Matthew will turn 4 this week but when they are yet so small, they pick up on new words quite quickly. The key to this project is, stay consistent. All Matthew speaks in creche is obviously English. There should be always the one parent who speaks English and the other parent teaches the second language at home.
One step at a time
Matthew is watching a lot of TV… sometimes too much in my opinion. But can you avoid it these days? If they are not watching TV, they are on the tablet or playing a game. Anyway, to take a small step forward, the cartoons he likes watching, I should start turning them on in German. The episodes repeat themselves and he knows some off by heart. This can come in quite handy for teaching him another language. On repeat.
Consistency is crucial
I suppose this is the time where I need to “man” up and start speaking German only in our home. As we are moving house in 2 months time, it is going to be a bit easier having hubby around all the time and not being away for 3 days.
Make time
It requires a lot of effort and time to teach your child another language. Invest some extra time. I bought a few German books a few years ago. In the evening times or during the weekend, I could sit down with Matthew and read him a small paragraph of it. Again I need to keep repeating it.
There will be mix ups
Speaking two languages will find your child mixing up the languages no doubt, but don’t worry about it. They will adapt eventually. Instead of them speaking English, they will speak “Denglish” (Deutsch-English).
Proud Parent Moment
Remember, at the end of all the hard work you will have a proud parent moment. I will just have to get that into my head. It will be all worth it in the end.
I always find it amazing when children speak two languages. Unfortunately I am a bad example, my mum tried so hard to teach me her mother tongue when I was a child, but I could never pick it up, I am rubbish at languages! Fortunately I can understand when they speak it and reply back in English. I am hoping Tyler can understand it too when his Nana speaks her mother tongue too! xx
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that sounds interesting.
I’d love Rosalie to be bilingual! Sadly by going to happen as neither Nick or I speak another language. You must keep at it. It’ll be worth it in the end x
My son was going to toddler French before we moved and he really enjoyed it.
I’d love my son to learn another language. I find it amazing how quick children can pick it up.
I am really struggling teaching the kids another language. I am more comfortable speaking English but the girls do understand Punjabi but won’t speak it!
I have a few different friends who are bringing up kids bilingually and am always amazed at how quickly they have picked it up from such a young age. One family is even trilingual!
this is brilliant to do – if only I spoke another language haha! it will help children so much with their schooling and intelligence
How amazing is it to have a child with another languages. My future sis in law is fluent in English, Polish, Lithuanian and Russian. My brother kids will follow her footstep too.